Birth of a new Blog….. soon!

August 29, 2009 at 9:01 am (Breastfeeding Advocacy, Childbirth Advocacy) (, , , , , , , )

Well, I haven’t been writing very much recently in my blog here.  Life has been full of insanity and stress and quite frankly my focus hasn’t been on our life here in Africa.

As I’ve said, we will soon be leaving for Canada- September 6th to be exact (or exactly 8 days from now…. almost to the minute!!!!), and then from there we will be going on to Dubai……. at some point…… some time……  argh.  (patience is NOT one of my virtues you know.)

But besides the impending move to yet another new country, and our return to our friends and family in Canada, I have regained my focus on one of my deepest passions: Natural Mothering- all aspects of advocacy to do with bringing parenting back to the way it was ment to be…. naturally.  Be it natural childbirth, breastfeeding, baby wearing, and co-sleeping, to fighting against genital mutilation and Nestles inhumane treatment of people the world over.

And So, I am on a mission to create a new Blog.

It is just in it’s fetal stage and I have a lot to do to organize it and make it grow.  You can expect several blogs a day as I will be using this new outlet as  a way to post news stories and link to other writings of some of my favourite bloggers.  And of course you can expect a healthy dose of my usual sarcasm and my acidic rantings against “THEM”.   I hope to make this new blog a one stop shopping spree for those looking for information and a way to arm themselves with knowledge and facts…. that they won’t get from their doctors, the media or their mother.

So stay tuned!  I’ll be posting updates as soon as I can, and hopefully will give birth to this new blog in the very near future.

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Technology in Birth- Articles by Dr. Marsden Wagner

August 24, 2009 at 7:05 am (Childbirth Advocacy) (, , , , , , , )

This is a series of  articles about the use of technology during pregnancy and birth that are vitally important and should be read by every expecting parent and medical professional in the birthing industry. These articles have been written by Dr. Marsden Wagner- former Director of Womens and Childrens Health for the World Health Organization, and one of the worlds leading specialist in the field of Birth.  If you read nothing else about birth, make sure that you read these articles.


“Fish can’t see water: The need to humanize birth”

http://www.birthinternational.com/articles/wagner03.html

“It is no coincidence that in the US, Canada and urban Brazil, where obstetricians attend the majority of normal births and there are few midwives attending few births, the highest CS rates in the world are found. Having a highly trained gynecological surgeon attend a normal birth is analogous to having a pediatric surgeon baby-sit a normal two-year old child. It would be a waste of the pediatric surgeon’s time and skills and, when the young child gets tired and fussy, the surgeon might be tempted inappropriately to use drugs,…”

“One reason for the epidemic of epidural in many countries is that women are not told the scientific facts about all of the risks to them and their babies when epidural block is used for normal labour pain. Indeed, at one meeting of obstetric anesthesiologists in the US, discussions were held on how to prevent any information on risks of epidural … Read More from reaching the public. The excuse used was the typical patronizing approach of some doctors: “We don’t want to scare the ladies.” It is absolutely essential that any women offered epidural must be told all the scientific facts about the risks before she gives informed consent to the procedure. …”

“The Active Management of Labour”
http://www.birthinternational.com/articles/wagner01.html

“The risks of oxytocin are too many and too complex for thorough review here. Again the WHO consensus conference reviewed the scientific evidence (Wagner 1994). The list of risks include: increased operative vaginal birth; increased neonatal hyperbilirubinaemia; uterine hyperstimulation with inadequate placental blood flow and fetal compromise; uterine rupture; iatrogenic preterm birth; increased incidence of neonatal seizures. With all the risks associated with oxytocin, using it when designing an intervention like active management to speed up labor is like designing a streamlined parachute — you may get there quicker but you may pay a big price. Because of these and other possible risks, an official WHO recommendation states: “Birth should not be induced for convenience, and the induction of labor should be reserved for specific medical indications. No geographic region should have rates of induced labor over 10 percent”…..”


“Technology in Birth: First Do No Harm”

http://www.midwiferytoday.com/articles/technologyinbirth.asp

“Is the increasing use of technology saving the lives of more pregnant and birthing women? In the United States the scientific data show no decrease during the past 10 years in the number of women who die around the time of birth (maternal mortality). In fact, recent data suggest a frightening increase in the number of women dying during pregnancy and birth in the United States. So it may be that the increase in the use of birth technologies is not only not saving more women’s lives but it is also killing more women. This possibility has a reasonable scientific explanation: cesarean section and epidural anesthesia have both been used more and more in this country and we know that both cesarean section and epidural block can result in death…”

“Twenty-three percent, or nearly one in four women, given an epidural block will develop a complication. One undesirable complication is death—epidural block for relief of normal labor pain results in a three times higher mortality rate for the woman than labor without epidural block. One out of every 500 epidural blocks results in temporary neurological problems, such as paralysis in the woman; and in one out of every half-million epidural blocks, this neurological damage to the woman is permanent. These extremely serious risks of epidural block are not so common, but several less serious, but still significant, risks are much more common. Fifteen percent to 20 percent of all women given epidural block develop fever that results in the undesirable necessity of administering diagnostic tests and antibiotic treatment to the baby. Fifteen percent to thirty-five percent of all women given epidural block cannot urinate and must have a tube inserted into their bladder. Thirty percent to 40 percent of all women given epidural block have severe backache for hours or days after birth, and 20 percent still have severe backache one year later. So they have traded pain relief during a few hours of labor for severe back pain for a year or more! Because labor pain is an essential component of the normal mechanisms of the body for the progress of labor and since the epidural block eliminates this necessary pain, epidurals also eliminate the normal mechanisms for the progress of labor. So it is to be expected that considerable research documents a longer labor if the woman is given epidural block. As normal labor is no longer possible with epidural block, there is four times greater use of forceps or vacuum extraction and at least twice as much cesarean section after epidural block. These surgical interventions, of course, carry their own risks both for woman and baby. So the woman choosing epidural block trades less labor pain for a longer labor and, if a cesarean section is done, more pain for several days after the birth, as well as increased risks for both herself and her baby….”

“Ultrasound:  More Harm Than Good?”
http://www.birthinternational.com/articles/wagner02.html

“With regard to the active scientific pursuit of safety, an editorial in Lancet, A British medical journal, says: “There have been no randomized controlled trials of adequate size to assess whether there are adverse effects on growth and development of children exposed in utero to ultrasound. Indeed, the necessary studies to ascertain safety may never be done, because of lack of interest in such research”. …”

“The World Health Organisation stresses that health technologies should be thoroughly evaluated prior to their widespread use. Ultrasound screening during pregnancy is now in widespread use without sufficient evaluation. Research has demonstrated its effectiveness for certain complications of pregnancy, but the published material does not justify the routine use of ultrasound in pregnant women. There is also insufficient information with regard to the safety of ultrasound use during pregnancy. There is as yet no comprehensive, mulitdisciplinary assessment of ultrasound use during pregnancy, including: clinical effectiveness, psychosocial effects, ethical considerations, legal implications, cost benefit, and safety. …”

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Good news…… FINALLY!!!!!

August 18, 2009 at 6:03 am (Uncategorized) (, , )

I know, I know, I haven’t posted in ages.  flog me if you will.

It’s been a hectic few weeks.  grief filled, stressed filled….. just not so much fun.

BUT…….

YAY FOR ME!!!!!!!!! WE FINALLY are going!!!!

WE’re off to Dubai in the next month!!!  major contracts were signed yesterday in Dubai and now all HELL is breaking loose and everyone is scrambling around getting it all organized. Nick will need super turbo booster running shoes: he needs to go to Dubai for a few days, then to Canada, then to Brazil for a week, then Italy for two weeks then be back in Dubai by the end of September!!! We’re coming home to Canada, probably for a short visit of a couple of weeks, but we’re not certain about the timing or when we’re going to Dubai- we might go on ahead and meet nick there…… we should have more concrete plans by the end of the weekend. The next month is going to be INSANE!!!!!

We talked to my dad for almost 2 hours last night about what “needs” to happen in the next 6 months,,,,……. I have a feeling that the usual time dragging on while waiting for the baby to be born is NOT going to be an issue this time!!

We are both soooooo relieved that we finally have plans and things are moving forward…. I honestly was close to a melt down waiting for word to come!!!

*doin’ the happy dance!!!*

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A day of Sorrow

August 1, 2009 at 4:23 pm (Uncategorized) (, , , )

My Grandma Dolly passed away this morning, peacefully in her sleep.  I’m so glad that she isn’t suffering anymore, but the pain of her loss is deep.  Dolly was the Matriarch of our family, born in  War time England in 1917.  She was a lady in every sense of the word, a loving grandma, and a holy terror when she needed to be.

Grandma,  you are greatly loved and will be greatly missed,  But you will be with us everyday.

RIP

Dorthy Arnold (nee Mann)   1917-2009 grandma and aylagrandma and family1

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KLM Saga continues……. *sigh*

August 1, 2009 at 7:15 am (Uncategorized) (, , , , , , , , , )

Here is the letter I wrote to Ms Harris of Delta Airlines in response to her reply to my original letter.  I also forwarded copies of this and all the background letters and information too all the KLM executives that I could find email addresses for:

Dear Ms Harris,

Thank you for your prompt response, but unfortunately, No, you did not resolve any concerns I had about your service, nor did you deal with my problem in any way.

It was immediately apparent from your response that you did not read my original letter nor the attachments that accompanied it.  It was also abundantly clear that your missive is pretty much a just a slightly personalized form letter.

I thought that my original letter was quite clear, but obviously it was not clear enough. But before I clarify my original letter, I would like to address certain points in your response.

- My family travelled with KLM- not Delta or NWA- in April 2009- which you would of known if you had read the letter and the accompanying E-tickets.

-You spent a good portion of your response offering an explanation that provides a clearer understanding of your policies as it pertains to necessary travel documents.  Yet as I stated in my original letter, I fully understood those policies and took full responsibility for our inadequate travel documentation, therefore no further clarification was actually needed. Although I am quite confuse as to why you think that a Canadian citizen, flying out of a Canadian airport, on a Dutch airline, to an African country -without ever having crossed into American airspace- would be required to contact the US State Department to find out about Passport and Visa requirements, regardless of the fact that these might change daily.

-Yes, our treatment by various KLM personnel was deplorable, and I am glad that our complaint is being forwarded to the appropriate management, But I strongly doubt that it has been.  Considering the fact that you had no idea when we were travelling nor on which day the original incident happened and you seem hazy on even the airline that was involved, then I can see no way that you could of possibly notified the management teams that would correspond to the offending staff members as you have no idea whom the guilty parties are and made no effort to find out.

The main focal point of my letter is the fact that I am trying to change our return flight from Sept 6th, to as soon as possible.  Now, I didn’t feel that there was need to go into the personal reasons for this immediate change, but perhaps if I had shared this information, it might of made the urgency of the situation clearer.

Let me explain our situation to you. I am a mother of 4 and my youngest son is just 25 mths old.  He is suffering through his second bout of malaria.  The medication available here is not working and he needs adequate health care that is simply unavailable in the Congo.  I am 3 months pregnant and also suffering with malaria but the medication available here has serious health effects for a pregnant woman and her unborn child.  To complicate the matter further I have health issues that are in contrast to taking this medication and if I do not take it under safe medical supervision there can be serious side effects. Hence the fact that I am desperately trying to get our family home to Canada where we can receive the best health care available. Unfortunately we are also experiencing a family emergency at home in Toronto as my grandmother is in the last stages of Cancer and not expected to live out the next week, which makes our immediate departure from the Congo even more urgent.

I have attempted to no avail to get KLM,  whom our return ticket is booked with, to change our return date.  If they were charging a reasonable penalty or change fee I would be willing to pay it, however they are requesting  $1000 per ticket, for myself, my husband and our 3 young children- that would be $5000 and we just cannot afford that and have no possible way to access that amount of money on such urgent notice.  This fee is simply to upgrade our fares to a higher level of economy class ticket, an economy fare that  I have already paid for months ago, and we would be sitting in the same economy seats, yet they want to charge us an exorbitant upgrade  fee for the same class of ticket…….

But I digress. The issue is that I require someone to help me sort out this huge mess. If that person is NOT you, then I would ask that you please forward this letter and all previous communications to your superiors, and I will begin the process over again with them.

Thank you for your time, if not your attention.

Regards,

Danielle Arnold

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NEWS UPDATE: KLM and NWA are complete IDIOTS!!!

July 31, 2009 at 9:17 am (Uncategorized) (, , , , , )

Well, right after I posted my blog about my ordeal with KLM, I got a response from their representative at Delta/NorthWestern Airlines:

Dear Mrs. Arnold,

RE: Case Number XXXXXXX

Thank you for sharing your concerns regarding the service provided while
your family was traveling with us on July 28.
On behalf of everyone at
Delta Air Lines, I sincerely apologize for the difficulties you
encountered on this trip with the international documentation
restrictions and the behavior of our agents.

First, I am truly sorry for the discrepancies you encountered with your
international documentation.  Unfortunately, due to constant changes
made by the U. S. State Department, passport and visa requirements can
vary from day to day.
However, feedback like yours is important to us
and will help in the future to improve our overall customer experience.
Please know I will be sharing your comments with our Airport Customer
Service leadership team for internal follow up.

For future reference, our web site provides some International Travel
Information.  However, passengers are responsible for complying with the
laws and obtaining the necessary documents required for entry into
another country (including Canada) prior to their day of travel.  As
such, travelers should call the U.S. State Department at 1-202-746-4000
or contact them at www.travel.state.gov for information regarding the
international documentation necessary for their travel.

If a passenger travels without proper documents, the passenger may be
denied entry into that country and the airline may be fined.  Our
Contract of Carriage governs the terms and conditions of every ticket
and can be found on our website at www.nwa.com.

I hope this explanation provides a clearer understanding of our
policies.  Again, I apologize for the problems you encountered.

However, there is no excuse for the rude treatment you endured from our
employees. Your comments serve as an excellent reminder that the actions
of our team members can make a significant difference in passenger
preference.  We expect our team to work with all our passengers politely
and respectfully.  Your appraisal of our actions has been shared with
the responsible management staff and they will be taking the appropriate
steps to address internally the problem you described.

Our company policy does not allow us to provide details about individual
team members.  As you may realize, employer/employee matters are
considered confidential and are not disclosed to the public.  I hope we
have your understanding.

Again, thank you for writing. I hope I have been able to resolve any
concerns you have about our service.  Your business is important to us
and given the opportunity of serving you in the future, I am confident
Delta will not only meet but exceed your expectations.

Sincerely,

Paula M. Harris
Supervisor, Customer Care
Northwest/KLM/Delta Air Lines
*************************************

OK, so first off all:  Why the hell would a Canadian citizen travelling out of Toronto on a Dutch airline give a flying fuck about what the US State Department has to say about international documents are necessary for American travel?!?

Secondly, she doesn’t even have our travel dates right (and I forwarded copies of our etickets for their information)- are they incapable of reading simple english?!?

“thank you for writing. I hope I have been able to resolve any
concerns you have about our service.  Your business is important to us
and given the opportunity of serving you in the future, I am confident
Delta will not only meet but exceed your expectations.”

My letter clearly stated that I fully understood the international documents that were needed AND took full responsibility for the fact that we did not have them.  So 90% of her email is a waste of words. My letter DID clearly state that I was desperately trying to change our tickets to get home….. which was not even mentioned in her response.

NO!  You’re stupid response did not Resolve any of the concerns that I had about their service (or the lack there of).

I am frustrated beyond tears at the moment.   Anyone have any brilliant suggestions?!?

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The other Reason I need to get home pretty damn quick

July 31, 2009 at 8:41 am (Uncategorized) (, , , , , , , )

Well, it would seem that a few months ago Nick and I had a bit of an “Opps!!” pee stick small

Since I went “public” with the news a few days ago on FaceBook and Natural Mothering, everyone knows that Nick and I are expecting a new baby in February.  (Keira is insisting that she is getting a new baby sister for her birthday!).

What I haven’t told anyone is that we have a problem. (and Sarah and Antoinette: Do NOT tell this to Jeanie or Grandma!)

When we went to the hospital for blood tests, we found out that I have Malaria.  Malaria has serious complications in pregnancy- including premature birth and stillbirth.  So the doctor gave me medication to get rid of the Malaria.  Of course Dani, being Dani, went home and seriously researched the medication and emailed the CDC in Atlanta to get their recommendation for Malaria (in the Congo) during pregnancy.  The CDC replied immediately that yes, it was a serious situation as I have no immunities to Malaria, and that yes, Quinine was the recommended medication with Clindamycine.

So I further researched Quinine (as the doctor didn’t give me any dosages to follow) and I made a startling discovery:

1- the drug is called Quinine Sulphate…. Which freaks me out a bit right there as I have an anaphalactic allergy to Sulpha, and I have not been able to verify if the Quinine is in the same drug family or not.

2- I am Hypoglycemic.  During my research I found out that one of the serious side effects of Malaria during pregnancy is that is causes Hypoglycemia.  Which explains the fact that I can’t gain weight for love nor money, and have dizzy spells all day long and my IBS  has been acting up really badly- regardless of how much I eat, what I eat or how much water I drink.  But I’m dealing with my blood sugar as best I can and eating really well to keep it under control as much as I can.  Here’s the problem: one of the main serious side effects of Quinine?  It causes HYPOGLYCEMIA!!!!!   Ok So I’m a hypoglycemic, with malaria induced hypoglycemia, and now I’m suppose to take a medication that will only make it worse!!!?????

We’ve decided that there is no way I can take this medication here in Africa, because if I drop into a diabetic coma….. there is nothing they can do about it here.

So I need to take this medication under doctors supervision. Hence the need to get back to Canada and to a doctor that specializes in tropical medicine.

Our other problem at the moment is that Logan also has Malaria.  We’ve already treated it once, but he’s still testing positive, and the new medication that the doctors here have give me for him is obviously for a bigger child (25-35kg, when he’s only 13 kg!!) , and it’s PILLS!!!  how am I suppose to get him to take 2 horse size pills 4 times a day?!?

So yea, I’m a bit stressed at the moment.

*sigh*

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Calling all KLM Executives…. or anyone who can help!!

July 31, 2009 at 7:40 am (Uncategorized) (, , , , , , , )

So as I’ve Bloggen about before, my Grandma Dolly is dying of cancer.   Things have gotten much worse this past two weeks, and her doctors are absolutely amazed that she’s still alive.   She’s been going through some horrible emotional stuff and …. well, everyone is at their wits end trying to help her and my Aunt Jeanie who looks after her. The Doctors and Nurses have been great and are doing all they can to keep her comfortable.

Tomorrow is the one year anniversary of my Uncle Bob’s death, and I know that my Aunt Jeanie and cousin Antoinette who’ve been looking after my grandma Dolly every minute of every day, are going through their own personal crisis and grief.  It’s been torturing me that I can’t be there to help.

Well I’ve been trying desperately to get our tickets changed to get home in time to see my grandmother … but KLM are absolute assholes and haven’t even responded to my letter (other than to say “we’ve received your letter…someone will contact you…. sometime, inthe future….”). Apparently my cousin Antoinette spent hours on the phone with KLM yesterday trying to get us tickets home…..with no luck.

here’s a copy of the letter that I sent to KLM last week:

I am writing to express my extreme displeasure with KLM.

On April 6th, my family was scheduled to fly from Toronto Canada to Lubumbashi in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, Via KLM and Kenya Airways. My husband is the Project Manager for a UN sanctioned construction project in the DRC, and has been in the Congo since September 2008. My husbands employer informed us that our VISA’s for the DRC were ready and would be awaiting us at the Lubumbashi International airport upon our arrival.

We arrived at Pearson International Airport over 3 hours before our scheduled flight as we had a large amount of luggage and 3 small children, and wished to make sure that everything went smoothly at check in. Upon our arrival at the check in desk, there was an extensive line up and a KLM employee approached us and offered us expedited check in through the business class desk, and the use of the business lounge for a price of $25 per adult. We decided that this would be worth the money, if only to get us out of the huge line up at the economy desk. We paid the fee and pushed our trolleys to the business class line up as directed by the KLM rep. There was only one group ahead of us, so we expected to get through the check in process within minutes. Little did we know that the group of 3 people ahead of us was a film crew for Discovery Channel with an industrial sized trolley piled almost 2meters high with equipment. We stood in the line behind this group for 55 minutes, while the economy line emptied several times. Finally, the KLM staff opened a second check in desk for the Business Class line up.

When invited, I approached the desk with tickets and passports in hand for our family. To begin with the woman at the desk was quite surly and abrupt, my attempts at friendly banter were either ignored or met with monosyllabic responses. When the woman asked for our final destination and for copies of our VISA’s, I explained to her that my husbands employer had stated that the VISA’s were awaiting our arrival in the DRC.   At this point the woman became even more abrupt and stated that we could not fly on KLM without proof of these VISA’s before departure, and she literally tried to shoo me out of the line.    My husband then came forward and very politely explained the situation again and asked to speak to a manager to find out if there was anyway to fix this very large problem. The KLM representative then stomped off to “find a manager”.

I would like to take a moment now to talk about this issue. We now realize that we DID need to have a physical copy of the VISA’s for KLM to allow us boarding on the flight. The fact that we did not have it available is a responsibility that we whole heartedly accept. At the time we did not realize that it was a problem as my husband had initially flown to the DRC the previous September via British Airways, and when he had the exact same issue with his VISA then, BA allowed him to take the flight regardless. But as I said, ignorance is no excuse.

But for what followed in the next 2 hours there is absolutely NO excuse.

While the KLM Rep went to find a manager, my family waited to the side of the check in area for KLM for 30 minutes. The Rep approached us, and stated that there was nothing they could do if we didn’t have the copies of the VISA’s. My husband again calmly explained to her all the details again and begged her to help us find a way to board this flight. My husband was directed to a Customer Service counter and told that a manager would speak to him to try to resolve the problem. Nick again explained all the details to the manager and she said that she would see what she could do. Then she disappeared into a back office. An hour later my husband was still standing at the customer service desk and with just 5 minutes until the boarding gate closed we realized that there was no possible way that we could make our flight. We also realized that the manager had deliberately disappeared into the office until this time so that she could then say “Sorry, there is nothing I could do, the gate is now closed”……5 minutes later the same manager returned from the office and walked past my husband, completely ignoring him and went to serve the next customer in line. When my husband finally managed to get her attention, she said “I”m sorry, the Gate is now closed, there is nothing I can do. If you had an official letter from your employer stating that the VISA’s were waiting for you, we might of been able to of done something.”

If your staff at KLM had addressed our problem immediately, instead of keeping us standing in the airport with crying children and piles of luggage for over 3 hours, we could of contacted the office in Lubumbashi and had the documents faxed to the KLM counter, and thus made our flight. I will also add that we also had a difficult time to get our money reimbursed for the Business Class vouchers that we paid for.

But that what we didn’t realize is that this was only the beginning of the fiasco.

As soon as we returned to my parents house we called KLM at their customer service number listed on the KLM web site, and our travel agent who booked our tickets.

Over the course of that evening and the next day we spent more than 5 hours on the phone speaking to 4 different representative of KLM and Northwestern airlines. Each Rep, told us a completely different story, and each Rep SWORE that they had put notes on our account explaining what had happened…. not one of these people actually wrote a single note, and 2 of the 3 Reps out and out lied to us about easily verifiable facts.

After wasting several hours and not getting any thing but more confused and frustrated, we asked our travel agent to intercede on our behalf with her KLM sales rep. She contacted me the next day and was very upset. Not only had the KLM representative REFUSED to do anything to help us, but had even cancelled our tickets and classed us as “No Shows” at the airport so that we were forced to pay $275 per person to get new tickets booked. Our travel agent was appalled that the KLM Rep out and out refused to help us, because she said that in situations like this, she has always relied upon the airline Reps to at least do something to make the situation easier, and commented that this was the first time EVER that she had witnessed this kind of debacle with KLM. It is our guess that someone from KLM did put a note on our account- one that was full of lies . That is the only possibility that explains the horrifying treatment that we have received from KLM.

I just wanted to forget this whole fiasco. My father and husband felt that we should write a letter to KLM, but quite honestly I just wanted to put all of this behind us.

But then this month I’ve been trying to change our return ticket dates and my frustration has driven me to write to you anyway. I have been told that because of KLM’s multi level economy class bookings, our class is booked solid, and to change our return tickets from Sept 6 to August, we will have to pay $1000 per person to upgrade to….. another level of economy class?!? Are you joking Me? We have to pay $5000 to fly back home on tickets we have already paid for in the same economy seats?!? I’m am so shocked and appalled by this, that I’m almost speechless… Almost. I am very tempted to toss our return tickets in the garbage and book new seats on another airline entirely, just so that we can forget this whole disgusting experience.

My husband and I and my father fly all over the world. Up until now I have been a happy KLM client and have been using KLM for my European trips since 1989. But I will never ever fly with KLM again. Besides the initial fiasco at Pearson, having to deal with your either completely incompetent or lying phone reps, and then the sales rep for my travel agent…… No, I’m sorry, I will spend my money else where. My Father is the VP Sales & Marketing of MAS environmental and VP of Qwikcore Inc. out of the UAE, and is about to import 790 employees from across South Asia. He is so incensed by the treatment we have received that he has now banned all of his employees from every flying on KLM again- if they do, they will not be reimbursed on their expense accounts. My father spends and organizes thousands of dollars a month on airline tickets all over the world. The president of MAS and Qwikcore flies weekly between the Middle East, Europe, North America, Africa, and the Caribbean, and only ever travels First/Business Class… he will never use KLM again. I can not even put a dollar figure on the loss of income these incidents will cause KLM just through word of mouth, because travel is such an important part of my families business.

In this day and age of financial recession that has obviously effected the travel industry just as much as every other major industry, I would of thought that the logical thing for an airline to do would be to work hard to keep their loyal clients happy. But apparently KLM thinks that they are above these type of common sense business practises.

Very frustrated and disappointed

Danielle Arnold

So….. does anyone know any KLM executives who might have some pull?  Because regardless of the emails that I sent to the Customer Service dept listed on the KLM Corporate website in Amsterdam, and the copies I sent to the attention of Peter Hartman and Frederic Gagey- CEO and VP of KLM……. yea, well, no one seems to care.  In the meantime, My grandmother is dying and I am stuck in the jungle.

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Nudity does not = morality or sexuality

July 19, 2009 at 8:21 pm (Uncategorized) (, , , , , , , , )

A good friend of mine Paul Rapoport asked me to write a short article about nudity and breastfeeding in the Congo. . . this will appear in Going Natural / Au naturel, Vol. 24, No. 3, along with other material (including photographs) about breastfeeding and nudity. Publication date: September 20. The issue will be available in digital form for sampling and purchase from the website of the FCN (www.fcn.ca), from which print copies may also be obtained.

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We asked Dani Arnold-McKenny, our “African correspondent” to comment on nudity and breastfeeding where she is, in the Democratic Republic of the Congo.   She sent us the following report.

We’ve all seen the pictures in National Geographic of bygone eras, of tribal peoples going about their daily lives—women topfree in sarongs, men in loin cloths, naked children running everywhere. Due to extensive changes to the Congo in the past 50 to 100 years—war, genocide, cultural revolution, influx of people from other areas of Africa, and of course the introduction of Christianity—nudity is no longer a “social” thing, at least not in the busy city centres.
Where I am, in the southern tip of the Congo in Lubumbashi, a thriving city of 1.5 million or so, social nudity is clearly no longer part of everyday life. But while the average person on the street is fully clothed, and adopting the fashions of the West is becoming more prevalent, this isn’t an indication of being infected with the Western sickness of body taboos.
As a Canadian woman and staunch breastfeeding advocate, coming here has shown me what the norm should be. Women of the Congo do not hide in embarrassment when their babies need to be fed. They do not cover their bare breast with some ridiculous tent-like poncho thing or smother their baby with a blanket. There is no big scene. There are no nervous glances right and left to see if anyone is watching or, even worse, will tap them on the shoulder to tell them “You can’t do that here!”
No; if a baby needs to be fed, the mother simply pulls her top up or down and feeds, regardless of where she is or who is there to “see.” Women nurse their babies wherever they are, while doing whatever they are doing. Seeing a breast is as common as seeing a bare leg or foot!
Although older school-aged children are rarely seen in public less than fully clothed, there are toddling naked bums running everywhere! The African/Congolese tradition of using elimination communication with babies instead of diapers is still a strong part of the culture. Sadly, however, the Western model is having more and more influence: having your baby in diapers shows a certain affluence and “modern thinking” in the younger generation of parents.
Still, babies and toddlers with bare bums are so common that they’re not even noticed. No one points a finger and yells, “Cover that child! Don’t you know a pedophile might be looking at them?!”
Even in a decidedly Christian society, Congolese have not fallen into the trap of Western body taboos and uptight puritanical thinking. Public nudity here does not have anything to do with morality or sexuality. Nudity is natural and is just a part of life.
Clothing is worn for fashion and protection from the elements, not as a way to hide shame—something most North Americans could use a lesson in.

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“Obscene” Breastfeeding poem

July 13, 2009 at 7:42 am (Uncategorized) (, , , )

This poem was written my a friend of mine who is a Breastfeeding Advocate  in Scotland-

Obscene : a Breastfeeding Poem

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Written by Gill Joseph

OBSCENE

A mother holds her firstborn child
So tiny, warm and small
Deserving of the best in life
So Mother gives her all

Eschewing any second best
And relegating self
Ignoring stares and whispered spite
To bring her babe good health

Courting disapproval
From a blind society
For breasts not making money
As a sex commodity

She gazes into baby’s eyes
So trusting and so new
While girls walk on by, barely dressed
Accepted in full view

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